婚禮攝影｜早儀式

一場婚禮，你最在乎的是什麼呢？

What do you care most about in a wedding?

我最害怕也最不想聽到的回答就是我不知道。

The answer that I am most afraid and least want to hear is ‘I don’t know’.

其實就算真的聽到這樣的回答，

問題也不大，至少我們開始對話了。

問題也不大，還好我已經在拍攝婚禮之前就提出這問題，讓我們一起來找出你重視的事情吧。

問題也不大，很好呀，你說不知道的含義可能也表示全部都很重視，只是不知道怎麼排出順序。

（上述轉念秘訣出自Youtuber歐耶老師）

Actually, even if I heard such an answer, 

it’s not a big deal. At least we started a conversation.

It’s not a big deal. Fortunately I brought up this question before shooting the wedding. Let’s figure out what matters to you together.

It’s not a big deal. It’s good. When you say you don’t know the meaning, it could also mean that you value everything, just don’t know how to prioritize. 

(The above reframing tip comes from Youtuber 歐耶老師.)

不管什麼問題，對話是最重要的一件事，我相信不管什麼問題，總是有能解決的方法。如果還沒有找到，就讓我們一起來尋找這問題的解答吧。一個人也許很困難，兩個人也許就能輕鬆一點了，沒找到答案之前，至少還有一個人可以安慰你，對你打氣加油。

No matter what the problem is, communication is the most important thing. I believe that there is always a solution to any problem. If we haven’t found it yet, let’s find the answer together.

One person may be difficult, but two people may make it a little easier. Before finding the answer, at least there is someone who can comfort you and encourage you.